Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life, and you want to look your best. But choosing the right outfit to get married in can be tricky. Here are some pitfalls to avoid.
Buying a dress that's not your style.
This is probably the biggest pitfall to avoid. Don't get caught up in trends or what you think you're supposed to wear. Choose a dress that expresses who you are and makes you feel confident and beautiful.
Trying on too many dresses.
It's tempting to try on every dress or suit in the store, but this can be overwhelming and counterproductive. Instead, focus on a few that you really love and that fit your style.
Wearing a dress or suit that's too tight or too loose.
Your wedding dress or suit should be comfortable and flattering. If it's too tight, you'll be uncomfortable all day and there's always the danger you'll pop a seam at an embarrassing moment. If it's too loose, it won't look good in photos. Don’t buy your dress with the assumption that you will lose weight by the day of your wedding. Have any alterations made with time to spare.
Buying a dress or suit that's too expensive.
Wedding dresses especially can be expensive, but there are ways to save money. Consider buying a dress off-season, renting, or buying second-hand. Picking up a used dress or suit could be an ideal opportunity for some upcycling; turning something simple or dated into something truly unique to wear on your big day.
Not getting alterations.
Even if you find the perfect dress off-the-rack, it's likely that you'll need to get it altered to fit you perfectly. Don't skip this step! Alterations can make a big difference in the way your dress or suit looks and feels.
Not taking your time.
Don't feel pressured to buy a dress or suit right away. Take your time and try on as many as you need to until you find the perfect one. The same goes for not picking the one shop. If you’re not sure about any of the options at the first place you go, then don’t feel like you can’t go somewhere else.
Not listening to your gut.
If you're not feeling an outfit, don't buy it. Trust your gut instinct and go with the dress or suit that makes you feel the most confident and beautiful.
Getting too stressed out.
Buying a wedding dress or suit can be stressful, but don't let it get to you. Remember, it's just one part of your wedding day. Relax, have fun, and enjoy the process.
Listening to other people too much.
Don’t let pushy family members or friends trying to make your choice for you. It’s your choice, your body, your dress, and your wedding. If your soon-to-be-mother-in-law is insisting you wear a 1970s style floral monstrosity because she wore one just like it, you don’t have to agree.
Here are some additional tips for avoiding pitfalls when picking a wedding dress or suit:
Start shopping early. This will give you plenty of time to find the perfect dress or suit and make any necessary alterations.
Bring a few trusted friends or family members with you when you go shopping. They can help you stay objective and give you honest feedback.
Take pictures of yourself in each dress or suit you try on. This will help you compare them later and make a more informed decision.
Don't be afraid to ask questions. The sales associates at bridal shops are there to help you find the perfect dress or suit.
Don't be afraid to walk away. If you're not feeling a dress or suit, don't buy it. There are plenty of other dresses and suits out there.
By following these tips, you can avoid the pitfalls and find the perfect wedding dress or suit for your special day.